Being indecisive is being always a problem for people . They always find there are lot of options in front to decide upon. But ultimately they will be in a stage of lot of confusion so they wont be able to take the right decision at right time. Why people become indecisive? Is it because of the reason that they don`t know what is exactly right for them, Fear of facing change, consequences, yes all this comes as reasons for being indecisive. Knowing what is right and what is wrong is always a tough say. No one can predict its 100% going to be the best for one person. This leads to people being confused at one juncture of life without knowing where should he/she must go. These sort of personalities tend ask for a back up or support from some one to go further. These people tend to take lot of time in taking decisions considering all the options available to reach the final decision. I found that if they are taking some quick decision, they tend to think about it lot of times after taking it and will start worrying about it. How we can come out of it? I feel its always good to take time to take time in taking decisions considering all options. And its not easy to change at one point of time to take the decisions quick. And I feel there is no need of being worried about being unable to taking time, but if they take time they consider all the options and take a decision which is really worth of taking it. I always felt decisions require time. Jumping into things all in a sudden is never been my habit. I always took time for my decisions. Sometimes I was forced to take it fast and landed most of time in soup.
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decision making is never easy! Being not so sure with what you're going to take, and what is the right one or wrong. It is giving you too much thinking that sometimes you will need some SOS to friends. It always requires a time, yes, i agree. But what if you need to decide up on the spot? at this moment?...
And you will just end up saying "follow your heart" thingy and "follow what's the right thing that you know".. or the famous words "LET IT BE".. So how would you know if you have chosen the right decision? even if you take time thinking, you are still not quite sure if its the right thing to do. Then, you will need now to compare the pro's and con's, bad and good..blah blah.. Considering the options and choices from the books, friends, consultants etc. etc,. And in the end, its all about you who would decide. Coz yourself should be blamed whatever decision you made and not others. It doesn't matter if you got wrong on a quick decision or on a long-termed decision making, its all about learning from failed decision, and how you face the risks. (this will show how tough you are in facing problems,and accepts consequences.) By then, you would be able to think now and give decision-making after all failing!
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